I’ve been on so many dates my head hurts.
The whole point of dating is to get to know someone enough to see if you want to work towards a relationship with them. The more time you spend together, the better you get to know them, and then you really get to decide if you’re attracted to them or not. So how do you get to know them if you can’t talk to them when you go out on a date?
The first date tends to set the tone and I’ve been on plenty good ones and even more bad ones.
5 WORST PLACES TO HAVE A FIRST DATE
The Movies
Why would you take someone you’re interested in getting to know, to the movies on your first date?! You go, sit in the dark for 2 hours then leave? You can do that by yourself. If you’re doing dinner, drinks, and movie- skip to the movie and just go straight to the dinner and the drinks.
A Concert
You’re not sitting quietly n the dark with this person but, it’s the exact opposite. You’re in a crowded loud space. The only talking involved is you singing along to whatever song the artist is singing. Save this for a good date later on if a relationship transpires.
Your House
Do I really need to explain this? Someone you’re just getting to know, and you don’t at minimum want to meet them for a cocktail? You just invite them over your house? If a man asked me this, I’d think it was very sketch and would decline… just based on the sheer thought of you trying to do something to me that might end up on Forensic Files.
A Fast Food Spot
I like fast food as much as the next lady, but not for the first date. As much as fast food costs for 2 people, I’m sure you can at least afford to take me to Olive Garden with those same funds and get me a soup and salad.
A House Party
Again.. A crowded busy place. Less talking and getting to know each other and more partying. Uh… no. They’re probably your friends so you’ll know everyone and your date won’t know anyone. Not to mention, how are you introducing your date? Could get awkward quick.
Have you had any of these experiences on a first date? Do I need to add any to the list? Let me know in the comments.
Have you had any of these experiences on a first date? Do I need to add any to the list? Let me know in the comments.
